Friday, January 7, 2011

Feeling or Real?

A friend of mine and I keep ourselves constantly amused with intellectually stimulating arguments about science vs. belief. He is an atheist and I am a believer. If I quote something from metaphysics, his answer is a simple, “Where is the evidence?”

Recently, after having spent a few hours on my warm electric blanket, he complained of burnt ass. His ass was not really burnt, but he just had the “ass-burn” feeling. My answer to him was, “Show me the evidence! How do I believe your feeling? You could feel anything?” His was silenced for once.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Why I became a CouchSurfer?



I was planning a backpacking trip with my mother for two months across Europe. Since, I was on a shoestring budget, I was scouting around for ideas to save and pinch every penny. That is when a friend suggested, “Why don’t you try couchsurfing.com? It is the largest volunteer-based worldwide hospitality network connecting travelers with members of local communities, who offer free accommodation and advice.”

I checked out the website that night. It seemed like a great way to save an awful lot of money that we would have otherwise ended up spending on expensive yet shoddy hotels in shoddier locations. I immediately signed up and paid up the 5 dollars that was required as a reference check.

The idea sounded exciting but my Indian cynicism of foreigners and travelers set in. I called up my friend who has been a member of the couchsurfing project for last two years. He assured me, “Most of the members are verified and have references and feedback from other members on their profile page. Even if you do not want to stay over, you can ask them to share with you some local insights over a cup of coffee.”

That set me at peace. I started scanning the profiles and restricted my e-mail requests only to female members. “Hallelujah! I received quick and positive responses.”

That led to me to check other similar websites such as globalfreeloaders.com J but with names like that I decided to stick to couchsurfing.com

Unfortunately we had to drop our Europe plans. Instead, we decided to tour South-East Asia. The hotels in that part of the world are not too expensive, so we decided to just meet up with some members in a few places over coffee. Learning about the local culture, economics and customs from these members was a whole new experience. Some also got us to experience the local flavor by taking us on a tour of the city.

In Yogyakarta, we met a member who explained how the Indonesian natural resources had been drained by foreign companies, as a result of a local corrupt Government. In Kuala Lumpur, a member took us to the best place in town to savor the local delicacies - Nasi Goreng and Nasi Kampuk and then dropped us back to our hotel in ChinaTown in his BMW. In Bangkok, a member explained the local politics and issues to us. In Vietnam, a member spent an entire day explaining the history of Saigon, and the recent strides that the country has made. In Singapore, a member took us on the romantic river cruise and accompanied us the next day to the shopping zones, driving hard bargains on our behalf.

When I was back in Delhi, I said to myself, “Travelling is a passion. Most times people are not able to travel due to budget constraints. I have a spare room. So why not make good use of it by letting couchsurfers stay over.”

I have turned into an avid couchsurfer. So far, I have had females from Europe, US and South America stay over. The interactions with these members has opened a whole new window of experiences for me. I get to learn so much about the culture and economies of their native places. I get important instructions from these people in the art of traveling and making friends. I get to hear exciting, adventurous tales of visits to far and exotic places. Besides, I also get to visit some historical monuments and famous joints in Delhi that otherwise in the busyness of Delhi life tend to get ignored.

A close friend of mine is immigrating to UK sometime soon. He has been anxious about finding a decent, budget accommodation in London, and is full of frivolous questions like, “What kind of business suits to buy? Should I buy only black and grey? Should I buy Oxford shoes? Should I buy the train pass?” I directed him to couchsurfing.com. Nowadays, he spends quite a few hours everyday chatting with Londoners on couchsurfing.com getting the answers he desperately seeks.

I am definitely looking forward to staying with a few couchsurfers on my next international trip. The experience is unparalleled especially if you are a travel addict like me.


Saturday, December 25, 2010

365 professions@ 365 days


Lately, I have been toying with the idea of experimenting with different professions. I am contemplating 365 professions @ 365 days.

Well, you may ask, ‘What good will it serve me?”

Let me take the liberty of borrowing professional jargon to explain my four-pronged strategy ( or rather clover leaf strategy).

Firstly, all the life management gurus preaching about embracing the diversity and vibrancy of life have deeply impressed my vulnerable mind. Life is a journey. And as an individual I need to be focused on innovation and scaling new heights. I got to constantly reinvent myself and re-engineer the future. So what better way!

Secondly, I suffer from a major attention deficit syndrome and I need the world to stand up and pay attention to my pearly words of wisdom. Since there is no mention of anyone having accomplished such a mean feat even in the Guinness Book of World Records, it provides me with an unparalleled opportunity to carve my very own niche. I can create a “differentiated” me.

Thirdly, I am on the path of self discovery. I plan to apply the law of elimination to discover my true yearnings. I got to discover which life drugs work for my particular mental condition.

Fourth, I am simply tired of being just a manager ( my ex-boss explained the concept to me). I wish to be a leader but a leader who is one amongst millions. I am the new age leader and my choices have to be off-beat, rakish and counter-culture.

I started compiling the list of 365 professions and am already running out of ideas. Of course that’s because this is not my job. I am the leader. I am now thinking of hiring research and data executives for this mundane task.

From Herman Hesse - who sought!!! (plagiarism on my part )

"One never reaches home,' she said. 'But where paths that have an affinity for each other intersect, the whole world looks like home, for a time."

"Oh, love isn't there to make us happy. I believe it exists to show us how much we can endure."

"I have ceased to question stars and books; I have begun to listen to the teaching my blood whispers to me."

"I live in my dreams. Other people live in dreams too . . . just not their own."


"What could I say to you that would be of value, except that perhaps you seek too much, that as a result of your seeking you cannot find."

"The bourgeois prefers comfort to pleasure, convenience to liberty, and a pleasant temperature to the deathly inner consuming fire"

"You've never lived what you are thinking, and that isn't good. Only the ideas we actually live are of any value."

"Gaze into the fire, into the clouds, and as soon as the inner voices begin to speak..surrender to them. Don't ask first whether it's permitted, or would please your teachers or father or some god. You will ruin yourself if you do that.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Indian Woman Backpacker

"We offered her a ride. Once inside the car, she offered us Rs.500 to drive her down for some additional 40 kms..(of course we had to vehemently argue with her & also arrange for a cab for her. She was attending a marriage party.. her elder son spoke english, chotta wala is a neta, her daughter looks like me." 

Discovering the state of our education system

We offered a ride to three 7th standard students on their way back from school. When asked what they had studied at school that day, they promptly replied, “Mathematics!”

So, we asked them a simple question, “What is 27 minus 3?”

After pondering over the question for 15 minutes and discussing it amongst themselves, one of the girls replied, “22”

I wonder if they would have been able to answer correctly if we had said, ‘What is Rs. 27 minus Rs.3?

Tidbits - Mountain Madness

While driving back to Mussorie late in the night, we encountered a traffic jam on a considerably precipitous mountain road. We saw a large number of cars parked to one side and a larger number of people shouting at the top of their voices. 

After making a few enquiries, it appeared that an Ambassador car had hit another car, breaking its bumper. The victim car was part of a large marriage party convoy. The driver of the Ambassador car had fled but for some incomprehensible reason, the people from the marriage party had broken down into smaller groups and were fighting amongst themselves.

We overheard someone saying, “Let us push the Ambassador down the mountain!” Another voice said, “No, let us throw a large rock on top of it.”

An old man went around apologizing profusely to every one. When asked if he was a passenger of the Ambassador car, it turned out he was part of the marriage convoy and was apologizing for no apparent reason.

This continued for an hour. Finally, they moved.